EMMA WANJIKU

Signs That He Is Going To Dump You



Posted: Sunday, March 07, 2010

by EMMA WANJIKU
EMMALIFETIPS.com

Many say that love is the greatest thing. When you find someone who becomes close to you, you often think that nothing can stop or end your love. But love and relationships come to an end every day and many stop in their paths and wonder what went wrong. If you have found a man to love, you need to always stay prepared for anything. Being dumped does not discriminate and it happens to everybody. The following are top signs you need to look out for that suggest that he is going to give you the boot. This is no time to be naïve, you need to know whether his love for you is past tense and the following tips will inform you and prepare you for the worse.

The first and most common sign is that he will ignore you and keep a distance. The most effective way to do this is to forget your phone number. If he does not call you as he used to, you need to take this as a warning. This amnesia and sudden loss of your phone number shows that he is no longer willing to talk. Another top sign that you need to be aware of is the fact that he will start being critical. If he is not usually like this, you need to be wary. For example, his compliments will suddenly change and it will be as if he wants to hurt you.

Another sign you should never ignore is as follows. Your friends know you well and when they start realizing there is something wrong, you need to take it seriously. You might be in denial and those close to you will help you see reality. If friends start wondering, you might be on the road to being dumped. Have you heard of couples who have run out of words to say, this is not normal. If the only conversation you can hold is ‘yes' and ‘no', you are definitely in trouble. If you are married, it is a whole new topic but for dating couples, you need to prepare for what coming.

Men will usually shift their company to their friends if something is wrong. If he is constantly with friends, you need to ask yourself why he prefers to spend most of his time with them unlike the past. This is a sure sign that he is tired of being around you. Another red flag is when he keeps picking fights from the blues. You need to stay above this and observe. This will prepare you for the inevitable.

Another sign is that he will be secretive and will not include you in his plans and thoughts. There are so many other signs to look out for. However, you need to know that if he decides to dump you, you cannot do much about it. It is bad enough that he tosses you aside. If you really want to deal with the problem, do not force him to keep you, this never works. Also, this is not time for drama and payback no matter what; seek to be above the situation to lay a foundation for a better man in your life.
Emma Wanjiku is a trained journalist who has been researching on many categories for her work. She has vast experience which she packages to give people essential tips on topics of life. For more see www.emmalifetips.com
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