Top Reasons Why Men Cheat
Posted: Sunday, March 07, 2010
by EMMA WANJIKU
EMMALIFETIPS.com
As some point sooner than they imagine, a woman sulks and crawls into an emotional dark hole tearfully. The reason being, her man has cheated on her. The tale of men cheating already sounds like a broken record but will not let up. We are living in the most informed generation yet some answers are still elusive. Perhaps women expect too much or men have not evolved to the needed degree. I go with the latter. All in all, tonnes of women will have to deal with this problem sooner or later because statistics are shocking. Most men will cheat and if not physically, they will do so emotionally at some point in their lives. They will hurt their girlfriends or wives and this is how it is.
First, men will cheat because of ‘genuine' reasons. These may include mistreatment, quarrels and a generally unhappy home. No man wants to be stuck with an angry woman because she is ugly at that. In other words, however cute arguments might be, there reaches a point where there is nothing to smile about and this is not a conducive environment for love and sex. Now, to remedy this problem, women need to wise up and not push men to the edge. Learn how to smile even if the man is crazy; at least this way, you will have a man in the first place.
Some men will cheat because of fantasies they might have. This is just another case of the forbidden fruit and there is nothing naughtier than this. However, as many men find out, they act out their little dreams at the expense of loosing their life; what is real and precious to them. Some men suffer low self esteem and might feel undermined either by their partners or society in general. To prove to themselves that they are daredevils, they form this habit of cheating. Others will cheat just because they get opportunities to do so.
Now, if there are no women out there seducing and entertaining attached men, then the problem of men cheating would be non-existent. Many men have just followed a dangling carrot just to find themselves in passionate trouble. Most men in relationships will have many women fascinated and since men are overgenerous, they do not let these seducers down. Of course the issue of self control comes in but as you know, self control is hard to find in the male dictionary.
Another reason why men cheat but women like to ignore is the fact that some men fall out of love with their partners. Falling out of love may be as a result of them falling in love with other people. This happens all the time and in recent times, it has just become more dramatic. The bottom line when men cheat is that you cannot force them to love you when they do not. There is nothing more pathetic than crying over spilt milk. However, if men do ask for forgiveness and turn from their wicked ways, you can consider it because no one is really perfect.
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